What is codependency? Is codependency an addiction? How do you recover from codependency?

In this article, I hold two of my marrriages up as examples of codependency and one marriage as an example of recovery.

Nice Guys give to get, a codependent strategey for getting needs met. Nice Girls do it too but in their own ways. Gosha Jacewicz wrote this article of her version of the Nice Girl problem.