Photo by cottonbro from Pexels Habits. What they all have in common is that once they are formed, the execution of them is no longer a function of the conscious mind. They require little or no will or effort. Charles Duhigg wrote about them in his book,The Power of...
Photo by Grafixart_photo Samir BELHAMRA from Pexels Most of us are unaware that we live unconsciously. We think, feel, and behave automatically. It makes sense that we don’t know we are living unconscious and automatic lives. We are usually unaware of what is...
Photo by Gratisography/pexels There are people in the world who are being victimized. They have no choice. They have no freedom, and they have no power. If I asked you if you were a victim, you may so no. There is a stigma of shame that can be associated with being...
Photo by Kirill Lazarev from Pexels Prior to learning about IFS, I expected myself to be clear, decisive, certain, and single minded. Of course, there were times when I was confused, unable to make decisions or stick to them, unsure, and conflicted. The contrast...
Photo by Suzy Hazelwood from Pexels There are people in my life who I put in jail. At some point in my life, our paths crossed, and I got hurt. I blamed them for my pain and locked them away for life so they could never hurt me again. Many of the people I locked away...
