I’m not trying hard enough

I’m not trying hard enough

What are you trying hard to do?   Today is day 25 of my 30 day thought diet.   I was inspired to make this commitment after waking up at 5 AM in Kauai 25 days ago with anxiety and no present justification for it.  I got out of bed and began listing all of my thoughts,...
What to do When it’s Hard to Decide

What to do When it’s Hard to Decide

As a coach, when a client comes to me with a problem, I am tempted to try to resolve the problem for them.  But this is rarely helpful.  Solving the problem for a client is like feeding a man a fish.  My clients think they want me to solve their problems.  But what...
Getting Unstuck

Getting Unstuck

True Self Recovery.   A new Coaching Program for those who feel stuck. Inspired by the Internal Family Systems Therapy model, I have created a new coaching model to help discover and explore your Internal Team.  Your Internal Team is made up of beliefs and attitudes...
Testimonial from Carly Cloer

Testimonial from Carly Cloer

I was hitting my head against a wall.  I knew I was getting in my own way but I didn’t know how to change it.  I knew I was meant to work on my own and not answer to anyone.  I knew that my life’s calling was not what I was doing.  I was constantly trying to fit a...
How can I help?

How can I help?

People ask me to help them when they recognize that how they show up in life automatically gets in the way of having the life that they want.  Sometimes they don’t even know what they want in life.  They just know they aren’t satisfied with the life they...