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Can’t Decide?

Can’t Decide?

Photo by Victoria Borodinova from Pexels   You need to make a decision. Opportunity will pass you by. The deadline is lurking. The pressure is on. But you can’t decide! Why not? Instead of teaching you one more strategy to get yourself to do what you...
Doctor Harry’s Success Story

Doctor Harry’s Success Story

Harry (not his real name) is a doctor who was referred to me by his employer who also offered to pay for his coaching. But when his children’s mother decided to move to another state, he quit his job and followed them there to be in their lives. This created a...
Why ask someone how they are?

Why ask someone how they are?

How are you? It’s a greeting more than a question. But it’s still a question. Both the question and the answer are usually automatic. Want to create an awkward moment?  Answer How ya doin? with a real answer. What’s your automatic answer to How are you? Fine. Good....
5 Rs to Remember When Giving Feedback

5 Rs to Remember When Giving Feedback

When it comes to giving feedback, you probably fall into one of three categories: You have a lot of great advice for others but nobody seems interested in it. The thought of offering feedback is so terrifying that you might just fall to your death before asking...
The G.I.F.T. of Feedback

The G.I.F.T. of Feedback

Giving feedback can feel vulnerable. It takes courage to offer feedback. Receiving feedback can also feel vulnerable. If, when you are receiving feedback you feel threatened, you may be more concerned with surviving the feedback than with hearing exactly what is being...